آموزش زبان انگلیسی برای همه

love & time

سحر عابدی — Tue, 31 May 2011 13:37:00 GMT

love and time

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."

زنان و مردان ؟؟

سحر عابدی — Sun, 26 Dec 2010 08:42:28 GMT

سلام دوستان خوب و عزیزم بعد از مدت ها با یک مطلب جالب اومدم.

اگر می خواهید خودتان و جنس مخالفتان را بهتر بشناسید اگر دوست دارید آنها را خوشحال کنید و در رابطه با آنها موفق تر باشید متن زیر را حتما بخوانید. مطمئن هستم لذت خواهید برد.یادتون باشه متن را تا آخرش بخوانید.

ابتدا خصوصیت زنان و مردان جداگانه عنوان شده است.

Women :

Women value love, communication, beauty and relationships.

A woman's sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships and of course achieving goals and proving her competence. They spend much time supporting, nurturing and helping each other. They experience fulfilment through sharing and relating.

Personal expression, in clothes and feelings, is very important. Communication is important. Talking, sharing and relating is how a woman feels good about herself.

For women, offering help is not a sign of weakness but a sign of strength; it is a sign of caring to give support.

Women are very concerned about issues relating to physical attractiveness; changes in this area can be as difficult for women as changes in a man's financial status.

When men are preoccupied with work or money, women interpret it as rejection.

Nurture = help sth develop

Fulfillment = the feeling of being satisfied

Preoccupied = thinking or worrying about something a lot

به ادامه ی مطلب مراجعه کنید

Men :

A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results, through success and accomplishment. Achieve goals and prove his competence and feel good about himself.

To feel good about himself, men must achieve goals by themselves.

In general, men are more interested in objects and things rather than people and feelings.

Men rarely talk about their problems unless they are seeking "expert" advice; asking for help when you can do something yourself is a sign of weakness.

Men are more aggressive than women; more combative and territorial.

Men's self esteem is more career-related.

Men feel devastated by failure and financial setbacks; they tend to obsess about money much more than women

Men hate to ask for information because it shows they are a failure.
Aggressive = behaving in an angry or threatening way
combative = ready to fight or argue
territorial = relating to land that is owned or controlled by a particular country
devastated = extremely sad and shocked
setbacks = a problem that happens that stops you from making progress

Other differences :

Men are more logical, analytical, rational.

Women are more intuitive, holistic ,creative, integrative.

Men are actually more vulnerable and dependent on relationships than women are and are more devastated by the ending, since they have fewer friends and sources of emotional support.

Men are more at ease with their own angry feelings than women are.

Women are in touch with a much wider range of feelings than men, and the intensity of those feelings is usually much greater for women than men. As a result of this, many man perceive that women's feelings appear to change quickly; men may find this irrational and difficult to understand.

Men tend to be more functional in approaching problem-solving; women are aesthetically-oriented in addition to being functional.

Women tend to be much more sensitive to sounds and smells than men are; and women as such tend to place a greater emphasis on "atmosphere".
intuitive = based on feelings rather than facts
holistic = dealing with the whole

integrative = involving communication between people

devastated = destroyed

perceive = understand

irrational = not reasonable

aesthetic = relating to beauty and the study of beauty

CONFLICTS WHICH ARISE DUE TO BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN :

The most frequent complain men have about women: Women are always trying to change them.

The most frequent complaint women have about men: Men don't listen.

Women want empathy, yet men usually offer solutions.

When a woman tries to change or improve or correct or give advice to a man, men hear that they are being told that they aren't competent or don't know how to do something or that they can't do something on their own.

Men often feel responsible or to blame for women's problems.

Men always assume women want advice and solutions to problems, that is the best way to be helpful and to show love; women often just want someone to sincerely listen to them.

Men often try to change a woman's mood when she is upset by offering solutions to her problems, which she interprets as discounting and invalidating her feelings.

Women try to change men's behavior by offering unsolicited advice and criticism and becoming a home-improvement committee.
Discounting = considering something is not important and true
unsolicited = not wanted

HOW TO WORK WITH THESE DIFFERENCES :

When women are upset, it is not the time to offer solutions, though that may be appropriate at a future time when she is calmed down.

A man appreciates advice and criticism when it is requested. Men want to make improvements when they feel they are being approached as a solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.

Men have great needs for status and independence (emphasis on separate and different); women have needs for intimacy and connection (emphasis on close and same).

Women need to receive caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation.

Women are motivated when they feel special,cherished.

Men need to receive trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement.

Men are motivated when they feel needed. A man's deepest fear is that he is not good enough or not competent enough, though he may never express this.

Devotion = great love and loyalty

Cherished = important

Approval = acceptance , the opinion that someone is good

نشانه های عاشقی

سحر عابدی — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 09:28:21 GMT

Signs of Being in Love

Sometimes we can’t realize our real feel about someone .These signs can help us to understand whether we fall in love with someone or not:

* When you are in love with someone, you remember him/her all the time. You go on thinking about that person and the happy moments spent together. You are not even able to concentrate on your work.

* When you are in love, everything in daily life reminds you of him/her. When you see anything or do anything, you tend to recall the related memories of the moments that you spent with him/her.

*If you concern a lot about someone, then it indicates that you are in love. You always care about his/her safety and happiness. You experience an urge that he/she should be happy and comfortable and should not be troubled by anything. It becomes your number one priority. You always try to protect that person.

*When you love someone, you feel that no person is more attractive than the individual you love. You even don't notice the presence of other people. Your whole attention is concentrated on that individual only) e.g. Of course he noticed the woman who is so beautiful and maybe looks like the most gorgeous actress in his country But the fact he pretended not to is a sign that he loves you. He doesn’t want you to be jealous, he wants to show you that you are the woman he wants to be with(

*Now you deny spending much time with your friends. You want to spend more time with him/her.You want to be alone and think more about your special person. Even though you are surrounded by your friends, you will find yourself constantly thinking about being with someone special.

*When you find someone interesting, you wish to know more about him/her.You want to know about his interests, likes and dislikes and career. You are eager to understand every detail of his/her life. You also try to do the things that he/she likes.

*There was a time, when you were cautious about time or spending the money. But when you are with someone special, you even don't think about time or how much money you spend to buy a gift for him/her.

*Loyalty is another name for love. You want to be loyal to him/her and expect the same from that person. He/she becomes the only concerned person for you.

*When you love someone, you tend to think about his/her expectations.You think about his/her views and needs and learn to compromise.

*You share some beautiful moments with him/her. You feel happy and excited when you plan about going to a party or picnics, attending a ceremony together. You start discussing about the future plans.

گرامر جملات مجهول (passive)

سحر عابدی — Sun, 31 Oct 2010 10:37:07 GMT

جملات مجهول (Passive) :

از جملات مجهول زمانی استفاده می شود که تاکید اصلی روی action است (عملی که انجام شده یا اتفاقی که افتاده) اینکه چه کسی آن عمل را انجام داده یا اصلا مهم نیست یا از آن اطلاعی نداریم. در مثال های زیر تاکید روی حقیقت انجام شده است نه کننده ی کار(Doer).

The rubbish is taken out every day.
نمی دانیم چه کسی آشغالا رو بیرون گذاشته.یا این که چه کسی این کارو کرده مهم نیست

The Great Wall of China was built thousands of years ago.
تاکیید روی عمل انجام شده است یعنی ساخته شدن دیوار چین و مهم نیست چه کسی آن را ساخته

The money has been stolen.
نمی دانیم چه کسی پول را دزدیده

My windows are cleaned once a month.
اینکه چه کسی شیشه ها رو تمییز کرده مهم نیست عمل تمییز شدن مهم است

زمانی که جمله ی active را به passive تبدیل می کنیم باید به نکات زیر توجه کنیم :

متن کامل این مطلب را در وبسایت خانه ی آیلتس ایران دنبال کنید.

گرامر(Wish)

سحر عابدی — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 08:17:52 GMT

ای کاش (Wish)

· برای بیان آرزو ( آرزویی که عملی نمیشه ) یا افسوس در زمان حال ( یا آینده) از الگوی زیر استفاده می شود :

نکته: بهتر است در جملات آرزویی زمان حال از was استفاده نکنیم و برای همه ی فاعل ها از were استفاده کنیم.

1. ' wish ' + past simple

(برای بیان موقعیتی که در زمان حال می خواهیم و دوست داریم انجام بدهیم یا اون طور باشه، اما این طور نیست)

I wish I spoke Italian. -- I don't speak Italian
I wish I had a big car. -- I don't have a big car
I wish I were on a beach. -- I'm in the office
Future: I wish it were the weekend tomorrow. -- It's only Thursday tomorrow

2. ' wish ' + past continuous

( برای بیان موقعیتی که دوست داریم الان انجام بدهیم یا دوست داریم اتفاق بیافته اما الان انجام نمی دهیم یا الان اتفاق نمی افتد)

I wish I were lying on a beach now. -- I'm sitting in the office
I wish it were n't raining. -- It is raining
Future: I wish you weren't leaving tomorrow. -- You are leaving tomorrow.

· برای بیان آرزو یا افسوس در زمان گذشته :

' wish ' + past perfect

برای بیان افسوس یا موقعیتی که ای کاش در گذشته انجام می دادیم یا اتفاق میافتاد ولی انجام ندادیم یا اتفاق نیافتاد

I wish I hadn't eaten so much. -- I ate a lot
I wish they'd come on holiday with us. -- They didn't come on holiday with us
I wish I had studied harder at school. -- I was lazy at school

لطفا ادامه ی مطلب را در اینجا ملاحظه نمایید.

ده اصطلاح کاربردی

سحر عابدی — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 09:07:24 GMT

Idioms

1.Red cent = یک قرون - ده شاهی

I can’t lend you any money. I don’t have a red cent!

یک قرون پول ندارم! من نمیتوانم بهت پول قرض بدم

2.Blacklist someone =blackball someone= boycott کسی را تحریم کردن

He can’t find work because he was blackballed/blacklisted.

3.Give someone a black eye =زیر چشم کسی بادمجون کاشتن

I made a comment about his girlfriend and he gave me a black eye!

من فقط یه نظر درباره ی دوست دخترش دادم و اون یه بادمجون زیر چشم کاشت!

4.Yellow =cowardly / 'kaU@dÛ£@rd/ ترسو-بزدل

You ‘re not going to confront her ? What are you, yellow ?

نمی خوای باهاش روبرو بشی؟تو دیگه کی هستی؟یه بزدل ترسو!

5.Double whammy (n)=قوز بالا قوز

Whammy= صدای برخورد

6.Beat around the bush به حاشیه پرداختن - طفره رفتن=

Just tell me what do you want. stop beating around the bush!

به من بگو چی می خوای .طفره نرو!

7.In the raw = لخت مادر زاد - کاملا لخت

I think he didn’t know I was home in the house. When I walked into the living room ,he was just standing there in the raw!

8.Go in one ear and out the other = از یک گوش شنیدن و از گوش دیگر در کردن

I’ ve told you three times to take off your shoes before you walk on the carpet. I feel like everything I say to you goes in one ear and out the other.

سه دفعه تا حالا بهت گفتم وقتی مییای تو کفشاتو دربیار.فکر میکنم هر چی میگم با یه گوشت میشنوی واز گوش دیگت بیرون میکنی!

9.Nothing but skin and bones =adj= پوست و استخوان - لاغر مردن

You ‘re nothing but skin and bones! Eat something!

پوست استخون شدی / داری میمیری ! یه چیزی بخور!

10.Bite your tongue = زبونتو گاز بگیر

If the boss says something you don’t like during the meeting , bite your tongue or you may get fired!

در طول جلسه اگه رئیس چیزی گفت که خوشت نیومد یا به روی خودت نیار/ زبونتو گاز بگیر در غیر این صورت اخراج میشی.

آغاز به کار تالار گفتمان - پرسش و پاسخ - در باره ی آیلتس در وبسایت خانه ی آیلتس

سحر عابدی — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 07:27:40 GMT

وبسایت خانه ی آیلتس ایران ، تالار گفتمان خود را بازگشایی کرد. علاقه مندان میتوانند هرگونه سوال عمومی در باره ی زبان انگلیسی و یا سوال اختصاصی در باره ی آیلتس و تافل را در انجمن های این تالار مطرح کنند و از متخصصان و یا سایر اعضا ، پاسخ بگیرند. عضویت در این تالار برای عموم آزاد و تا پایان سال 1389 رایگان میباشد. موضوعات انجمنهای این تالار عبارتند از:

این تالار توسط چند تن از اساتید برجسته ی زبان انگلیسی نظارت شده و مستقیما زیر نظر بهروز غفاریان اداره میگردد.

آموزش از طریق پیامک - گرامر و واژگان آیلتس و تافل

سحر عابدی — Mon, 06 Sep 2010 07:02:53 GMT

اگر قصد دارید در آزمون ایلتس و تافل شرکت کنید ، و به دانش تخصصی در زمینه ی گرامر و واژگان آن نیاز دارید ، توصیه میکنم از این سرویس استفاده نمایید:

گرامر تخصصی آیلتس و تافل - هر روز یک پیامک تا سه ماه - شامل نکته و مثال - کد ESLGS
واژگان تخصصی آیلتس و تافل - هر روز یک پیامک تا سه ماه - شامل لغت و معنی و مترادف - کد ESLVS

برای دریافت نمونه کافیست فقط کد مورد نظر را به شماره ی 30001421 ارسال کنید.

برای اطلاعات بیشتر و آگاهی از سایر دوره ها به وبسایت آموزش از طریق پیامک مراجعه کنید.

اهدای 50 جلد قرآن نفیس نیریزی به مسولان کشور سوریه توسط مدیر دفتر نفیس ماندگار

سحر عابدی — Mon, 30 Aug 2010 08:51:25 GMT

An Iranian Institution has gifted over 50 copies Quran Naffis to Syria officials

This Quran is written by Ahmad Neirizi and it’s print has been done by gold. Seied Majid Yousefbeik , the manager of Naffis Mandegar office and the presenter of this precious Quran has travelled to Damascus and during the interview with Irna reporter he added there are more than 10,000 types Quran which have been written and provided by computer and not by the hand of calligraphers in Islamic world, but Quran Naffis is completely different and it’s main script has been written by master Ahmad Neirizi 300 years ago.In it’s writing, 5 kg gold has been used. The writing of main script of Quran Naffis and it’s illumination has taken for 40 years and then was gifted to Naseredin Shah, king of Qajar, and finally this Iranian Quran lover bought this work which was kept in the personal museum of one of Qajar grandchildren 10 years ago and then sent to Germany for the print. He added on the occasion of Ramadan month and Imam Hssan ‘s birthday, over 50 copies of this Quran have been transferred to Syria to be gifted to high-ranking officials in Syria such as Bashar Assad.

He pointed out this Quran has been shown in Zabol, Zahedan,Saravan in Iran and countries out of Iran such as Lebanon ,Turkey, Emirates, Tunis .Quran Neirizi has an important feature that is seven readerships which is written in the margin of pages and at the end Yousefbeik said this Quran will be shown in England , America , Australia, Russia, Mecca, Singapore.

نامه ی تشکر از شما به علت بازدید از قرآن نفیس نیریزی در نمایشگاه قرآن

سحر عابدی — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 08:33:27 GMT

Dear Friends,

I want to thank you very much because of visiting the most precious and beautiful Quran, Quran Nafis Neirizi , which is written by powerful hand of Master Ahmad Neirizi.More than one hundred professional Masters have tried to produce this Quran and after passing 300 years this art work has been taken out of museum safely for the first time, since others can also use it.